10 Do-Nots For Getting Your Ex Back
Losing an ex-flame of life is not a great way to move ahead. Despite this, people have to bear with such loss at times. Many such times, they themselves pave way for partition. Behavioral differences, compatibility issues, suspicion of infidelity or some hidden anguish can cause two people to divert paths. If both of them are adamant on living alone then it is something else, if on the other hand, one of them feels a sense of deprivation and feels like getting back, then there are many ways to do so too. Let’s not look at what needs to be done to get back to your partner’s life; it has already been talked about too often. In contrariety, let’s think of what not to do for getting your ex-back. Here are some don’ts.
Don’t play the soft card women do not like a sobbing man. They feel rather odd if their ex’s leave their lives and sit back with the smelling salts and tissue papers. They love to care for their man but exaggerated show of meekness sand vulnerability can be a put-off for women.
Don’t push false excuses don’t cheat her. Lying to her about sudden disease, mendicancy or fatal problems may win her pity but it would never win her love.
Do not play the child custody card men often make the mistake of thinking that women would surrender on the child custody issue. Yes, they too love their children but they would hardly allow this to be your counterfoil. They hate being put on the wrong foot by such show of immorality.
Do not try too much do not over try. Women may resist such attempts. It is one thing to try and win back your buddy and quite other thing to push the limits too far. If someone has gone away, it means she needs space, at least temporarily. This is why it is rather odd if you over-intrude in her life in order to win her back.
Don’t show her wrong it won’t work if you put all the blame on her. Even if you think so, telling her won’t make her feel sorry. She would feel even more repulsed from you.
Don’t sit back with life toil hard, get on the move. Do something worthwhile. Women do not like sobbing uncles.
Don’t shy away from common get together it is a great idea to join common get-togethers. It is a way to show that you have moved on and everything is fine. Do not shy away from such meetings.
Don’t give her the “falling for your friend” bait its one of the most predictable calls. It would infuriate her further. The lack of ethic of such a plan can really hurt her.
Don’t make the affair ugly let it not be a dogfight. If you have been in love at least once in life, there is no reason why you should make the past look ugly and the present remorseful.
Don’t leave hope hope will let you feel balanced. Love will come back do not lose hope.
Don’t wait for your ex to come back to you. It will not happen. Some breakups make lovers lonely. Other breakups end with the lovers coming back and enjoying a great relationship. Which type of a breakup would you like? Don’t be a loser. Take steps to get your ex back